FAQ's about a reading with Pamela DO YOU REALLY SPEAK TO THE DEAD? It is funny, but believe it... I do get this question all of the time. And the answer is... Yes, I do, yet I always giggle when someone asks that because, well, your loved ones are not dead to me. In fact, I really have a hard time telling the difference, which is why you will find that I will ask you during the reading if they are here... or there, meaning heaven. The reason is, their energy is just like yours and mine. They are very much alive and well. HOW DO YOU DO WHAT YOU DO? The short answer is, I really dont know, it is just the way it has always been. For example, when my grandpa died, I did not know that he had passed (long story). However, on the day of his funeral I had a terrible car accident (this was 25 years ago). Well, long story short, he was right there with me helping me through the event, and it wasnt until years later that it dawned on me that I should have known he was in spirit, yet, I did not. Plus, I guess being in shock and all... because my face hit the windshield probably explains a lot, lol.... More to my point--for me, connecting with spirit is just as natural as connecting with you, it feels no different, it is simply natural for me, and really it can be for you too, because I am sure you have experienced spirit as well. Furthermore, when my grandma passed, she did not leave, in fact it feels as if she is even closer to me, and another friend who recently passed is also quite alive and well and has his hands in everything helping his family and friends! WHAT DOES IT MEAN...MEDIUM...? Simply put, I have direct communication with spirit, aka... your family and friends who have left their physical bodies and are now in heaven. WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF A READING? To validate the continuity of life. In other-words... it is my job to tell you things about you and your loved one that will prove to you that I am indeed speaking to them, validation is the key, and there truly is no other way to show to you that your loved ones are indeed very much alive and well and happy and okay! They love to help you, and I am simply the messenger, and if I am off the mark, it is not them, it is simply that I am not interpreting the messages in the way they are intending, thus, I work to find a way to deliver the messages to you so that you can understand what it is they are trying to tell you....(wordy, I know...lol).